Below we have a list of issues which are common topics in life coaching. Skim this list and answer in your mind. If
something touches you and you would like to change it, please contact me and we will go together over whether
this is something you would like to have assistance in working with – or just have an unbiased person to discuss
with at this time in your life.
• What do you find most valuable about friendship?
• When you think of love, what comes to mind?
• Which aspects of your life are you content with now?
• What kinds of doubts or questions diminish your drive to act?
• Which habits prevent changes?
• Which duties or responsibilities prevent you from acting?
• Who is responsible for you?
• What is it you are really responsible for?
• What kinds of excuses do you use to procrastinate?
• If you could change one thing about your behavior, what would it be?
• Are you stuck in a rut?
• Why are you stuck in a rut?
• Which are your real goals?
• Which are your values? What do they mean for you?
• Are those your own values or the values of friends, the community, parents or spouse?
• How does anyone become good at anything?
• What is a goal?
• Why do some people reach their goals when others do not?
• Is there a shortcut to success?
• What is success?
• Who dominates your life?
• Who is responsible for the status of your life?
• What would you like to get out of life?
• Which persons will follow you into the future?
• What do you like best to do?
• What makes you smile?
• Where are you going?
• Why are you going there?
• Do your values balance with your goals?
•How are your friends? Are they working toward their goals?
• Are your friends encouraging?
• Is your spouse encouraging?
• Do you have goals in common?
• What do you need to sacrifice in order to reach goals?
• Are sacrifices necessary in order to reach goals?
• If you sacrifice something today, where would you be tomorrow?
• What do need to sacrifice in order to reach your goals?
• Do you do a todolist?
• If you finished your list, what happened after?
• If you could not finish your list, what happened?
• How do you use your time?
• Do you have time for your hobbies, friends, and entertainment?
• Do you take the initiative for meeting, change, or do something?
• Do you wait until somebody else takes the initiative so you do not have to?
• Do you listen without answering? Do you have a better story afterwards?
• Do you have to be right when discussing issues?
• Are you satisfied with yourself?
• What should be the next question?